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How una dey...

Sorry I haven't been on here in a while...

The past week has been very interesting, as a matter of fact the longest week i have had in ages.

I had only two working days this week, was kinda ill for a bit but i'm good now thank God.

My highlight for this week was a major argument i had with the boo, lets call him Beau. In every relationship people, fight and people argue, but some arguments are world record based and in fact should be in the guiness book of record for ..lets see.... WORLD'S BEST ARGUMENT......

Well... i obviously would not say what the argument was about, because now that i think about it, i feel very silly, we both feel silly and now we can blame it on the "DEVIL"...... LOL....

When you have an argument with a Loved one, there are a few things you should know.

It is normal for a couple to quarrel at times. The fight may be caused by some Misunderstanding or it may be because of some things such as incompatibility of interests. The most difficult thing to do after a hot fight or argument is to make up. Mending up things after a hot argument is crucial for a relationship. This will allow you to start over again and can even help in fostering a stronger bond in the relationship.

*NOTICE THE BOND*

If you and your man have just gone through an argument and you do not know how to make up with your man after a fight, here are some tips on how to mend up things after a hot argument:

Say sorry.

There may be different means to mend up things after a fight but nothing beats the traditional and classical way of saying sorry. The best thing to show to your boyfriend or husband that you want to make up with him is to say sorry. Saying sorry might appear difficult and challenging especially if you are prideful enough and you believe that you were not the one who committed the mistake. Saying sorry does not mean you are wrong. It simply means you are sorry and you feel bad for hurting your man. Saying sorry also implies the message that you do not want to hurt and causes your man trouble. If you have had a fight and you want to end it up, go ahead and say sorry to your man.

Offer a making-up gift.

Another way for you to mend up things with your boyfriend after a fight is to offer him a making- up gift. This can be a box of his favorite chocolate or a note saying you love him and you want to make things right again. Offering a gift is most helpful if you have hurt your man enough and you know that you are the one who committed the mistake. You can also present yourself to your man but in a new light. You can refer to “The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave” and learn how to make your man forget his anger and surrender. BY THE WAY, THIS DOEN'T MEAN OFFER YOUR BODY AS A SORRY PRESENT.

What we find today, especially amond African women is the mentality of not getting presents for your man, there is aboslutely nothing wrong in it. Yes he is the man and yes he is suppose to be the one showering us with gifts and all, but it's always good to do the same once in a while. It only shows sensitivity and freindship

Talk to him.

If you find saying sorry very difficult, you will find it easier to “just talk” to your man as if something did not happen. You can start up a conversation such as by asking him if he wants to eat or if he is hungry. If things seem to be normal again, it is best to talk about the problem calmly so you will be able to settle the problem more efficiently.
Most guys, Like MR BEAU.... would rather talk there and then about the problem, but other guys would not, if your is like that, let him be, DO NOT force the conversation. Say sorry and leave him, when he is ready to talk about it, he'll COME AROUND.

Well I learnt a lot this past days, and at the end of the day God intervened and we are just Awesome. Love you Beau

*Don't worry i'll soon give you the gist of how we met... LOL*

Venue: At work

xxBlessxx